God gives you the people,resources and mindset you need to go forward in life. But as humans, you and I go on worrying.The end goals realizing there’s no end goal but the journey, the tea shop stops and the people who sing along with you on the journey that matters.The circle of influence,love ,memories.The people who will help you live with grace.
What does serenity mean :According to the dictionary, “the state or quality of being serene, calm, or tranquil; sereneness.” Synonyms: peacefulness, peace, calm, composure.
While most of you have heard the serenity prayer ,few claim to live it. That’s the reason I picked up a little book of Serenity. It’s calmness with grace.The understanding of one’s troubles and accepting the journey one has to walk.You may walk with a smile or with tears in your eyes,will always be your choice.
The Serenity prayer
….grant to us the serenity of mind to accept that which cannot be changed, courage to change that which can be changed, and wisdom to know the one from the other through…
Reinhold Niebuhr
Choosing grace is the most difficult thing for me ,when I just want to flame the fire.But that’s where wisdom comes in .It’s not just the Dopamine hit you want.It’s the good effect of endorphin, which will keep you feeling great even when the stimulus is gone.The book has a pretty book cover and pretty font.Something to pass on to your kids type book .It’s a book of short poems and quotes by the author and by other stalwarts which the author likes .
Name of the Book: A little book of Serenity
Book by Ruskin Bond
My favorite quote snippets from the book.
Serenity of nature is the serenity of perfection.
…life on earth is not permanent .
In humility lies serenity.
A meaningful friend ,a meaningful day
Dalai Lama
Simple pleasures …browsing among old books
Letting go gives us freedom,
Be like water..,it finds its way.It doesn’t quarrel,it simply moves on
Lao Tzu
..its alright to not climb every mountain
Let nature be your teacher
William Wordsmith
Who is this book for?
If you are seeking serenity in your life ,then this book is for you.A good book to gift someone in need of inspiration and serenity in their life.I also read a book about painting calm which you may like .This is part of the Blogchatter Bookchatter.
Hello dear readers! This is Miss A.Misra logging in to tell you about another book I read recently. Today’s book is “The Spider’s web” by Agatha Christie. This book was pretty dense and had a dark plot with some sharp turns in the way. It was a bit sad in the middle but somehow quite hilarious.
Here’s a short description of the story written by me: Clarissa is the wife of a Foreign office diplomat. She is prone to daydreaming. Literally. She muses about different scenarios that may happen and what she was to do if the DID happen. For example: Supposing I were to become an actress? Supposing Henry( her husband) dies? Or even “Supposing my ice cream melts?”. ( Ok, the last one is not technically mentioned, but it CAN happen!)
The story starts out so innocently you will never believe it takes such a horrifying turn. It begins when Clarrisa brings own three glasses of beer and wine, and asks three of her friends to guess which is of which company. Two of them confidently say three different things. Jeremy, the last one, blandly says they taste the same. To which the other two men say young people have no knowledge on such matters. Later Clarissa reveals they all were of the very same bottle of beer!
Clarissa had an adopted daughter called Pippa, and unlike other stories where the stepparents are mean, Henry and Clarissa are loving and supporting. Pippa absolutely adores them. Her real parents had been abusive so she was taken away. Then things become rather interesting. Clarissa confides in Jeremy what she does when she is bored. Daydreaming random scenarios. It’s entertaining, I must say. I myself sometimes think: What should I do if a fire catches? Supposing the ceiling fan falls right now? And stuff and nonsense like that. Moving on, she just happened to mention to Jeremy that ” Supposing that I find a dead body in the library one day?”
She didn’t have to wonder much longer. Some time later, when her child Pippa was asleep. and the maids took a day off, Clarissa finds a dead body in the library! Pippa appears suddenly, and starts crying at the sight of it, saying ” Oh no I didn’t mean to- Did I do that?”. Now, obviously Clarissa thinks her daughter somehow killed the man after this small exchange, and decides to make an alibi for herself and her daughter . What’s more, the man who was killed was Pippa’s real father. Obviously, she did the most sensible thing. She panicked.She quickly calls her friends and explains to them the case. Together, they create alibis for themselves in case the police come. They do come, and Clarissa is smart enough to pretend to know nothing about it. Pippa is upstairs, sleeping again ( FYI though, Clarissa gave her a sleeping pill so she falls asleep and does not worry herself, because you might be wondering how someone can sleep so much for one day), so the police don’t take notice of her. But, she’s not the real murderer. Infact, someone among her friends was present there! But who is that person? Will Clarissa be able to convince everyone Pippa is actually innocent? And will the real murderer get caught in time?
The Spider’s Web by Agatha Christie was an amazing novel. It was originally a short story, like she generally writes, and it was novelised by Charles Osborne. It is very dense, as I mentioned before, like three times. Just felt like I needed to throw that in again.
Clarissa is a very important person in the story, as is their gardener, who is actually someone using an alias (:O) Henry, Clarissa’s husband is rather a minor figu Anyways, for thriller and mystery lovers, this book is perfect. However, if you are those sentimental people (no offence) who can’t bear a book character to have a bad past or face death, you might want to skip it. Pippa’s backstory is rather tragic, and (surprise, surprise) my mother cried while reading it. I have to admit, when we learnt who the real murderer was, I was completely thrown off track. It seemed so sudden yet so logically correct. So I won’t disclose who murdered the man yet, because that would pretty much ruin everything for you.
What would be the use of reading it when you know what’s going to happen, anyways? I did not find many complaints about this book even after reading it quite a few times, so it was pretty much ideal for me.
Other short stories you could read, which are related to such genres by Agatha Christie are: The Lamp (it’s related to paranormal stuff, but it was pretty cool), Philomel cottage ( one of my favourites) and ” The strange case of Arthur CarMicheal” ( extremely creepy sci-fi thriller which is, I repeat, very creepy. If you’re scared of ghosts going into animals and inanimate objects, don’t even touch the stuff).
So basically it’s a pretty good book and though I like to read more science-fiction and stuff, I rather liked this one. Well, again, I like ALL sorts of Agatha Christie books, and by saying that I’m basically opposing against what I just said. But whatever.
Anyways, dear readers. goodbye now! See you in another post
Physical books are easy to underline,highlight,tag and come back later for perusal.It can be handed down,shared,sold,donated to libraries.Its a one time cost .You don’t need internet or any gadget to read a physical book anywhere anytime.Its like soothing music to your eyes after the Blue light onslaught.Go pick up a book.
I have Kindle app and Epub reader on all my phones.I own a Kindle .But I still buy both Bengali and English books to read.Its brilliant how books are the best way to share your childhood,wisdom and education with your kids.
When my daughter was five I gifted her the complete book set of Famous Five.She liked the occasional book but was not yet,a book worm.But I was patient.Then in 2020 when the pandemic lockdown and the online classes made online entertainment a problem for eyes,she picked up the box set and finished within a week and my little reader was born.
After that I didn’t have to ask her to read a book.We both read books together.I read the children’s books even now when I need a calm, happy read and my childhood reading habits have ensured I can stand or sit anywhere and wait in line when I have a book.
A few words about e-readers
The best part about e-readers is you can carry thousands of books anywhere across the world with you and not break a sweat.With libraries like Kindle Unlimited the only limit is your time to read .
At home I still like my physical books to snuggle up to in the afternoon.
The important thing to remember is,you don’t have to choose between the paperback/hardback/e-reader.They are just modes by which the stories or information reach you.The test for a reader is to be a life long reader,because apparently its a rare species nowadays!
I have a home library and it’s a place of joy for me and my daughter.
It started in 2020.But the seeds were planted in my childhood. I had a school project,where we had to take care of a small flowering plant,over a few months and bring it to school,as the project submission.
It was winter and I bought a pansy plant.I coloured the pot ,talked to the plant and it flowered.It was a yellow brown pansy flower with their cute butterfly shaped flower.What I didn’t know was that the hollow stems of pansy plants, made them sensitive to even little birds hopping on them.A sparrow hopped on the flowers and my pretty plant had fractured stems.
Flowers in my Garden
The submission date was soon and I was sad that this happened and then I put cellotape on the stems and within a weeks time they looked so much better. I had another new flower blossom just before the day of submission. I told this story during presentation and my project came first.It sounds simple but my worry that week was another level.You can’t bargaining with nature.
My teacher said while many of the other plants looked smarter,prettier and had more flowers,mine looked like it belonged to a family and not from a nursery.
Lessons I learned about plant care then was going to be my lifelong friend.
The garden we planted in 2020 is our greatest pleasure during all seasons now.We stay there for quiet weekends,we host picnics,parties and sometimes just visit in the evening for chai and gup-shup or for playing badminton.
The flowers are always ready to smile and bloom for us and nourish us with their produce .
Conservation starts at home
Steps for Conserving Nature
Conservation and sustainability go hand in hand.We plant local plants and trees.Not exotic varieties which can cause trouble.
Planting a mix of flowers, fruits and vegetables ensure we have a sustainable garden not just a pretty one.Remember plant what you eat or what you like looking at,is not just as an investment,it’s a way of life. It needs to be a balance.
Restoring barren lands and preventing trees from being cut down is a thing we do as a group of friends. Again sustainable with friends.Plus more fun.
Share your nature gifts ,so that kindred souls might have their passions ignited.
Don’t stress it, but do it as a project.Small steps at a time.Focus on your home,family home,ancestral village ,community park,community spaces and see how things improve one day at a time.
Conservation is not just for the future .It’s today.My daughter wrote this script Go Green plastic is obscene .
Madhabilata,Plumeria, orange Ticoma and Yellow Alamanda in one frame.Planted in January 2021 ,it’s been three and a half years of having them in our life.Thankful,Grateful,Blessed🙏
Relationships are always tricky and just like parenting, marriage too is difficult to categorize or handle according to rules. But when you marry a friend, things help somewhat .
Why marry a friend
..and ruin a friendship will be the comment of many a cynical people .But that’s what makes this relationship work .
Despite knowing the odds when people who are friends do get married , they already know the things they like about the person (he is a friend).They also know what they don’t like and probably has already told them about it at great lengths .Despite all this, if your friendship has survived two years or more and you have good chemistry, then it could be a keeper .But there should be no ambivalence about whether you like someone better .
That’s a red flag .If you have a 2 am friend which is not this person then think again. I might be wrong but eventually you would want to let your 2am friend have a life too .That is if you are a good friend and don’t want to destroy their love life.
A friend who marries you,
…marries you after knowing you .
…have seen you behave well and not so well.
…loves you even after seeing you at your worst .
… loves you whole; both for your strength and despite your weakness.
…likes your company .(crucial)
… lets you talk (if you are a talker).
… really listens(or pretends to listen most realistically) most of the time.
The Tricky part
They know you inside out and can probably read your mind too.On a bad day this means they know ,when you really mean what you say.