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13 Secrets No One Tells you about Adversity
“The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of them all.” – Mulan
Adversity is easily the most challenging part of life. But have you ever wondered why fairy tales have stepmoms and Hindi movie have villains? If contemporary literature reflects society, then you have the answer. Becoming stronger doesn’t mean getting the best of life. It means making the best of the cards you are dealt with. Roses have thorns for a reason.
If you think deeply about a few of your life events which have been hard you will realize they are the ones which shaped your character your moral fiber your life view. It’s not despite adversity but because of them that you are the person you are. You and I are both blessed to have the challenges we had. If not for them we would never meet. This post would never attract you to read.
I was struggling with a very interesting issue with my blog. Miraculously I got the answer served to me on a plate.T he answers is so simple yet easy to forget.
13 Secrets No One Tells you about Adversity
#1 The more you fear them the worse it is.
#2 The Universe will give you the problems you can deal with. Nothing more and nothing less. You live the life you want to. It’s a choice you have made.
#3 Reality checks are important in life. That’s why overprotective behavior with kids can be tricky. Walk the talk but don’t fight their battles.
#4 When you think of the stepping stones to success, you will realize everyone is not as lucky as you are.
In India, only 25 % of the population use the internet effectively. One percent pay taxes. If you do both you are in a privileged group. This privilege I am sure was not all roses and has its fair share of thorns. Appreciate your challenges because they are a part of your journey.
#5 Adverse life situations will be difficult but they will always have a silver lining. The trick is to look for them. It’s not going to be easy.But no one gave a guarantee about easy right?
#6 Life, death and everything in between is a mirage, a parallel reality. It’s an experiment your soul does with itself. Its matter-energy and magic all mixed up. Adversity is the necessary suspense needed to make your story interesting.
#7 Write tribe festival of words is a challenge too. It’s making my brain work in mysterious ways. It’s giving me a much-needed midyear boost. It’s also the most refreshing way to start the next half of the year with a bang.
#8 All the famous people in the world overcame adversity to make a life full of meaning. If you are facing difficulties, remember you are alive for a reason. You can, and will touch the sky. You will break the glass ceiling. Just don’t give up.
#9 Going uphill is always difficult.T hat my dear is adversity all about. When the going gets tough remember to look for the silver lining, thank God and get ready to be at the top. It’s just the beginning!
#10 Money doesn’t solve all problems but does a good job of taking care of most. It’s definitely better to have money, than not.
#11 If you are not getting an education, have no skills which someone will pay for, your adversity may topple the apple cart. Adversity and silver linings work well when you have a few aces up your sleeve. To have the best chances you need to be smarter than those bumps on the road.
#12 Nothing lasts forever.
Thats not true. Some things do. The secret is to find out the good ones which do.
#13 Learning from adversity means, not repeating them. Revising mistakes are not a good life strategy.
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I #writebravely every year and I also wrote a book about the blogging challenges which changed my life including this one.
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Distance education: Learn from the past.
13 Warrior Tips to Slay Naysayers
13 Secrets No One Tells you about Adversity
15 Secrets No one Told you about Making Wishes
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Buy Art and Paintings Online:8 ways you can Decorate your walls (no.5 is a favorite)
Did I tell you about my new home? It is still under construction. But that doesn’t stop me from dreaming about decor, right? I love nature all around, my balcony garden helps with that. I plan to have a vertical garden right in my living room and for the other walls, I want paintings. Beautiful, gorgeous paintings, which will make me weave stories about the artist and the subject and make my home interesting. Paintings are not only unique home decor, but they are also a wonderful talking point. A way to break the ice at parties. It’s also a wonderful way to make your house a home with a distinct personality.
But how do I buy paintings online? I am living in a small town in India and traveling back and forth. I love paintings, but not very well-versed in the nitty gritty of buying art. Luckily, I found a site to buy paintings online. Gallerist is based in India and connects art lovers and artists throughout the world. You can buy beautiful landscapes, florals , Gods and Goddesses, and wildlife paintings, all at the click of a button.
The site has an impressive 900 artists exhibiting on their online gallery with over 3000 gorgeous paintings. This has made my life easier. I plan to have pictures of forests and waterfalls on feature walls.
I selected this beautiful painting of Krishna for the wall next to my puja area. I am a great believer in the power of faith. Puja corner is a must for me!
The Buddha picture will be in our library cum guest room. It’s so serene and peaceful. When I want to curl up with a good book or research something, I want a room which invites concentration.
This painting of a beautiful woman, in traditional dance attire, will grace the living room wall. Art can inspire and lift up the mood of a space. It can create life and ambiance in rooms. So I plan to buy my art pieces with supreme care. Interestingly art is also a good investment. But a lot depends on what you buy!
My daughter loves trains She will love this stunning train painting in her room. Helping Rai explore her interests, is my job as a parent. What she does, with all the knowledge, is Gods will! I think I am set.
Thank God I found this site. Otherwise, my dream of getting paintings for my new home would never come true! I found 8 beautiful ideas to display paintings and I will tell you the 9th one in my next post. That’s a super easy decor hack, to hang paintings with zero stress.
8 Best ideas for displaying art as unique decor
1.Display art along the long connecting hallway. The plain wall which would look boring before now turns into an interesting walkway where your guests will slow down to see or you will smile as you pass.
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- When you have open spaces with kitchen, dining and living room altogether, paintings help to define each area. The best part, it creates no barrier to airflow or energy flow but helps make the space distinct.
3)This is one of my favorite ways to display paintings. These slim shelves are perfect .you can have as many paintings or as little as you want. Change paintings every day, rearrange them, nothing is a problem. Bonus, there are no headaches of hanging the paintings.
By Turner Pocock London – More transitional living room
4)A feature wall with a painting in the library, den or recreation room is my favorite. It looks dramatic and gives the place the right creative vibe. Home decor is not just for show. It’s creating the perfect environment for your family to find comfort and creativity to bloom.
5)A dramatic modern art, in the living space in an all-white room, gives it the much-needed color, without taking away the serene look.
6)A nature painting at the end of a hallway makes the space pleasant. Picture of plants and nature are guaranteed to boost the wellness quotient of your home.
By Kim Pearson Pty Ltd – More eclectic corridor
7. Putting up paintings, properly waterproofed in outdoor areas, can help merge indoor-outdoor spaces. This gives rooms a calming back to nature effect.
By CAROLE MEYER Portland – More American patio
- Even if the room is small, you can display a large painting. Just don’t put it, on all your walls. That can make the room appear cluttered. The picture below shows one waterfall picture on a feature wall. That easily lifts the otherwise okay room to wow!
By Robin Muto Rochester – More eclectic home office
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(Disclaimer: This is a sponsored post, but all opinions are mine. Kindly make all buying decisions after a proper assessment of your requirements.)
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13 Warrior Tips to Slay Naysayers
You must not let anyone define your limits because of where you come from. Your only limit is your soul. – Ratatouille
Its great to have a balanced viewpoint. It’s wonderful to learn from positive criticism.What is not right,is to believe those who break your dreams. If you have read the book Big Magic,you will understand the trick to living a creative life.
When I was a little girl I wanted to become a teacher during the day and a doctor at night. Many laughed saying you can’t be both. Today I am a medical teacher and an ENT surgeon. I am also a writer. I write. I get my share of brickbats and weird comments, but I have a few hacks which make me resilient. How do you overcome naysayers? How do you keep your dreams safe from them? Today I am sharing the super tips which make me almost warrior-like when a naysayer crosses my path.
13 Tips to Overcome Naysayers
1)The biggest secret is to have a very thick and transparent skin. Thick so that the negativity doesn’t pierce your soul.Transparent: So that in light of beauty and positivity your nature takes on the color.
2)Always practice Occlumency (Remember Harry Potter!). Sometimes you will need to put up your shield before you meet these people. Isn’t it easier to just shut them off from your life? Yes but sometimes that may not be possible. For the times when you have to interact,be ready.
3)If you have a good idea, share it only with supportive people. A baby idea needs nurturing.
4)Remember unkindness and negativity will say more about the other person than you.
5)Until you let them, unkind words can’t hurt you. It’s your choice. Choose right.
6)Remember about the company you keep. Choose your friends well.
7)Walk every day. It helps to fight negativity and gives a boost of endorphin.
8)To all the people who remind you of your failures, thank them for keeping a record of your actions. It will be helpful when the time comes for writing your autobiography.
9)Never try to get naysayers on your team. These people live to break dreams. The best way to handle them is to not handle them.
10)Recognize a naysayer and a cautious person. Respect the latter. He /she will give you both the pros and cons without selling you either.
11)Your inner naysayer is tricky.If you become a naysayer? Stop. You are killing parts of your creative soul. When that inner naughty little naysayer wants to rise, discipline her.
12)Have faith in the Universe and believe in yourself. Your dreams are important.
You did not discover the wheel, but you may invent something equally creative. You must try.
13)Always have a backup plan .This doesn’t mean giving in to your inner naysayer. It just means you are serious about making it.
Whats your super tip to handle naysayers? #writebravely today in the comments below.
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Distance education: Learn from the past.
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Bacterial Vaginosis:Get tested today
Bacterial vaginosis is a common problem affecting females of reproductive age group.It needs diagnosis and treatment as early as possible to avoid long-term complications.
Previously known as nonspecific vaginitis and presents as:
- Vaginal itching
- Burning sensation during urination
- Vaginal discharge: whitish .gray, green
- Foul smelling discharge, often described as fishy
Gynecological and obstetric complications associated with BV
- cervicitis
- salpingitis,
- endometritis,
- postoperative infections,
- urinary tract infections,
- pelvic inflammatory disease
- , mild abnormal Pap smear results
- possible link with cervical intraepithelial neoplasia, preterm delivery, premature rupture of the membranes, chorioamnionitis and postpartum endometritis.
Risk factors for increasing Bacterial vaginosis are
- Multiple partners
- Prior trichomoniasis,
- Intrauterine device usage,
- Smoking,
- Use of scented soap
More than 50% of all women with BV are asymptomatic.Treatment of asymptomatic women needs detailed evaluation.
Diagnosis of Bacterial Vaginosis:
It’s quick and painless.So definitely get it done.It is confirmed by Amsel’s Criteria and needs a sample of vaginal discharge for testing.
Treatment and precautions of Bacterial Vaginosis will be covered next.
Disclaimer:The blog post is not meant to be a replacement for a doctor consultation, nor is it a medical recommendation or prescription of treatment. Any reader of this blog suffering from this problems should specifically consult his/her doctor for the same and follow the suggested course of treatment’
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Parenthood and Newborn Baby Care:No more overwhelm
Parenthood and newborn baby care can be a challenge. When you are aware and prepared you can get rid of overwhelm.
It is normal to feel out of sorts with newborn baby care, lack of time, baby’s sleeping, feeding, and more sleeping, feeding, and diaper changing! After the baby’s arrival, your relationships will get challenging. There’s one more person to interact with. Your new baby means rescheduling of sleep for both of you. Take turns to watch over baby, that way both parents can rest and avoid feeling burnt out.
Of course, family and friends will want to see the new baby. Advice is free, and they will tell you about their babies. Babies learn by watching and interacting with you and their environment. You’ll find yourself baby-talking to encourage your newborn. After the first few weeks, you’ll see your baby studying and eventually starts copying your silly faces, talking baby-language that only you understand and recognize.
Then comes the time when your baby goes everywhere with you. Potty training your new baby is part of the responsibilities of baby care. If you find you have a new bathroom buddy, just relax and use the opportunity to teach the child what the bathroom is about.
Babies need conversation. The best way to teach them to speak is to speak to them. When you talk with your baby, the baby learns, and you bond. Kids learn from your actions as well as your words.
Babies are a blessing, but a lot of new learning too. Don’t try to do it alone. Both you and your partner should have time each day just for you while the other is taking care of the baby. Watch a favorite TV show, read a book, go for a walk, take a bath or clear your doubts and minor queries with a virtual online doctor. Seek help with baby routines like bathing, babysitting and your issues.
Feeling overwhelmed, fatigued, or tired? Most people will understand. Guilt Is Normal, and there will be days when you want your old life back. You are not alone. Seek help. Maybe in a perfect world, there are perfect parents. In the real world, do what works. When in doubt, ask your pediatrician or use the services of an online doctor.
A baby’s love is real, unconditional and comes as a pleasant surprise. Enjoy it, and build on it for a lifelong relationship. Your child will learn from your words as well as actions.
10 Things you must do to stay calm as a new mother:
- Take care of your own diet. Eat right and drink plenty of water.
- Don’t ask for medical help from unauthorized sources. The volume of information online given by anyone who has become a mother is not checked by Google for correctness. Always consult reliable sources before taking any decision regarding your child.
- Don’t let your child play with these objects.
- Take care to give the right vaccines on time.
- Monitor your baby’s milestones.
- Be strict about hand washing rules before touching the new baby. Its normal for friends and relatives to want to hold the child. But you need to set those boundaries.
- If there are family members helping you take care of the baby don’t forget to thank them. Just because they are helping out it’s easy to take them for granted. Remember it’s a blessing but you need boundaries here too. Feeling overwhelmed often ends with sour relationships. The best way to avoid this is, to be honest about what you need help with and always being grateful.
- Never forget to exercise at least for 20 minutes every day. It’s important to start feeling better.T he appropriate level of activity and exercise should be adjusted after consultation with a doctor.
- Take your supplements on time. They will not only help you be a stronger mommy but also give your baby the right nutrients through the breast milk.
- Believe in yourself, you can do this!
Disclaimer: This is meant as general awareness information. All healthcare decisions should be taken after a professional consultation with your doctor.
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