When my sister shifted to Delhi for her post-graduate training, I wished I could help her find friends easily and safely.
A new city busy work life means she had limited chances of finding friends, outside her immediate circle.
She wants to explore Chandni Chowk, Dilli Haat, Khan market.She also wants to visit the national museum and libraries.
She has plans to go saree shopping at Nalli.All this made me very worried.God alone knows how she will find friends with such varied interests.
From knitting to trekking everything excites her.Unfortunately, none of her colleagues share these interests.A tricky problem.How I wished I could help her.
The other day she suddenly told me about how she attended a photography workshop after finding it on Cuddll.
It made me curious and a little worried.
Delhi makes me worried.Finding friends can be a tricky business.But she told be all about Cuddle.
CUDDLL is about coming together to find a friend.
Why you need friends?
Humans are social beings.You need company for emotional wellbeing.
While being alone and lonely can be soul-sucking, you need to strictly avoid bad company.
In real life you can’t choose your friends according to interests.Though it’s better to be alone than in bad company, in real life things are tricky.You end up regretting those friendships.
Friendships you will regret
- Forced friendship
- Selfish friendship
- Needy friendship
- Jealous friendship
- Will not let you grow a friendship
- Insisting on exclusive friendship
- Good time friendship
- No common interests friendship
- Disloyal friendship
- Get you into a hot soup friendship
Friendship … is born at the moment when one man says to another “What! You too? I thought that no one but myself -C.S Lewis
There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate –Linda Grayson
Why are friendships tricky?
Because friends don’t wear thheir interests around their neck.They may or may not tell you their likes and dislikes.
Now finding friends and your party circle is easier than before.
The Good News
Cuddle the new friend on the block tells you to Come together.
What exactly is Cuddll?
Unlike most other dating apps Cuddle is a friend finding event finding platform.
You can find people and events according to your interest and have fun.No more being tongue tied or bored, because Cuddll makes finding friends easy.
How can you quickly set up Cuddll
- Just download the app.
- Make your profile using your phone number.
- Complete your profile.
- Add a cuddll or plan an event.
You can make it open or closed according to your wish.
Invite friends and you are set.Once your friends join you will get an update.
You can also join the cuddle you like.Joining a cuddl gives you badges.
Cuddll lets you find people with similar interests participate in meaningful group activities in places close to them.
Informal social gatherings are what Cuddll is all about.It is the Airbnb of the party scene.
You can plan and engage in get-togethers without formal organizations, entry charges.
Users can join “Cuddlls” (informal social gatherings) & chat with other users who are also looking to attend the same gathering.
Pros of Cuddll I liked :
Its a wonderful mix if the old and new.
It gives a modern twist to the traditional concept of doing fun stuff with friends.
Just like I found my hubby and best friend while studying at med school, you may find your besties while enjoying doing what you love.
It can be singing, dancing,cooking work, play anything.You don’t need to be something you are not.You don’t have to try hard to impress.
Nor do you have to worry about looking great and sounding engaging.
Cuddll helps you find people who like doing the same things that you enjoy.That makes social interaction fun just how it should be.
Cuddll’s USP is their call to action.
Celebrate birthdays ,go for dinner or a movie anything is possible.
The app may hang if your phone is too full or slow internet
In smaller cities, if there are fewer users you may find it difficult to find activities.
How to find friends who are right for you?
- Look for people with similar interests.
- People whom you like as well as respect.
- People who respect you.
- People who help you grow.
- People who are there for you.
- People who don’t pull you down.
In this world, you want someone who gets you.You want birds of a feather, to stay together for a long time.
Dating apps are often full of people of the wrong kind.Even one bad choice can be dangerous.
This is where Cuddll impresses effortlessly.Cuddll talks about shared interests, hobbies, passion.of having an experience together.It makes the platform perfect for choosing friends carefully.
You won’t need to fumble about being boring or bored to death.Shared interests make friendship much easier.
Takeaway and personal insights
It’s never easy to find friends.Dating apps are full of people with doubtful intentions.
Cuddll makes finding people with similar interests easier.You can go for an activity you like and may find a new friend.
A word of caution:
- When you meet virtual friends in the real world, always meet at a public place.With women’s safety very important.
- Avoid sharing personal info.No credit card, debit card birth date etc should be shared.
- Don’t invite them into your homes.
- Listen to your mind.
- Tell someone you trust about who you are going to meet and where before going out.
Technology, when used the right way, can be great.Friends are the people you choose.Relatives you are born with.
I found my life partner in s friend with a shared passion for travel, happiness and being financially independent.
It also changed my life.Friends are the silver lining when life is grim.But for that, you need to find the right type.
Have you tried Cuddll yet?Try it and do let me know in the comments below.
Disclaimer: While all efforts are there to make post helpful.Updates will be added to keep pace with new information.
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